Imagine the joy of the early Christians as the outpouring of Godās Holy Spirit made the church grow by leaps and bounds. Imagine also the huge challenge of welcoming all those new folks into their fellowship. How did they do it?
And how do we do it?
To be honest, so often we donāt work hard enough at practicing hospitality. If we insisted on truth in advertising from the pulpit the same way we do over the airwaves, might we be startled to hear the Pentecost worship service opened like this?
āWelcome, if youāre an active member with an outgoing personality. If not, then youāre not exactly welcome, but weāll tolerate you and hit you up for a few bucks during the collection.
āSame deal for you visitors. Weāre glad your warm body fills up another empty space because we like a full church. But youāre sitting where we always sit, so we have to go sit somewhere elseāand now someone else is looking daggers at us. . .
āPlease stick around after the service so we can collectively ignore you and guiltily peek at you out of the corners of our eyes as weāre talking to our friends. We donāt think youād actually want to talk to us anyway because weāre no good at talking to strangers.
āIf you brought the kids, sorry you couldnāt find the nursery. But you get a second chance. Before the sermon you can shoo them down the aisle and out the door along with the rest of the madding crowd. You have an even chance that theyāll find the right room and wonāt spend the rest of the service whimpering in the stairwell.ā
I know, I know. Iām being harsh and maybe more than a bit unfair to you and your church. But itās so easy for us to ignore what Pentecost reveals: the good news that by the pouring-out of Godās Spirit the walls have come downāthe walls between Jew and Gentile, between rich and poor, and between residents and aliens.
Do we still believe the Spirit will āadd to our number daily those who are being savedā? Then a smoothly functioning ministry of hospitality should be right at the top of our agenda. Who makes sure this happens in your congregation? Do you have a plan; someone to administer the plan? Do you educate and encourage each and every member in the basics?
This stuff is crucial, and itās not rocket science. Letās learn together to show real down-home hospitality to those the Spirit sends our way. Letās embody together the Good Ļć½¶ŹÓʵ we share.
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I realize itās hardly prudent to administer a kick in our collective pants on the topic of hospitality, then turn around and ask you to reach for your wallets. Nevertheless, we really do need your financial support to continue The Bannerās ākitchen tableā ministry. Please consider a donation when you receive our annual written request. Thanks so much for your generosity. āBDM
About the Author
Bob De Moor is a retired Christian Reformed pastor living in Edmonton, Alta.