At this yearās synod, the annual leadership convention of the Christian Reformed Church, held this month at Calvin College, Grand Rapids, Mich., women elders and/or pastors will be seated for the very first time as delegates. Thatās a historic event regardless of what your conviction is with respect to the issue of women in ecclesiastical office.
Does that mean that synodical participation is now fully inclusive, since we have also made some progress in seating delegates who are not of Anglo background? A look at the ratios shows weāre not there yet by any means.
On that topic, where are young people? Why are they left out of this significant yearly event? Isnāt there a way in which they can be heard and their views, opinions, and beliefs included in the conversation? When they become professing members theyāre handed budget envelopes and told (rightly) to use them. But wasnāt there some righteous dockside unpleasantness where cold tea was made in Boston Harbor to make the point that there shouldnāt be taxation without representation?
Placing younger members in leadership positions locally and denominationally wonāt just be to their benefit. Our church seriously needs their insights, vision, and passion for missional ministry.
To return for a moment to the topic of new delegates at synod: as someone who has participated in a bunch of them, I thought Iād share some survival tips. Itās not easy sitting on a church chair from 8:00 a.m. until 9:00 or 10:00 at night and to do that day after day.
- Take your breaks and enjoy themāeven if you still have tons of āhomeworkā to do. Do that stuff when everybody else has gone to bed. Donāt miss the opportunities to chew the fat with delegates from all sorts of fascinating places youāve never been to and who hold opinions youāve never even imagined.
- Hold on firmly to your principles, especially the principle that you shouldnāt elevate many of your convictions to that level.
- Enjoy the times of worship and prayer. The business of synod doesnāt get more important than that.
- Be considerate. Speak your mind succinctly when it matters. But donāt speak on every issueāespecially if the discussion is headed in the right direction anyway.
- Engage in genuine dialogueāallow Godās Spirit to pull polarities together sufficiently to allow the church to move ahead together in following Jesus.
- Laugh.
- Hold Godās people in your heart.
- Avoid boredom during the long debates by solving a puzzle like the acrostic youāre reading right now.
- Reread the first letter of every paragraph in this editorial, including the bulleted ones, then turn to page 32. Take my not-so-subliminal message to heart and remember that not only do you need to survive synod, so does the denomination. If we donāt prophetically address the key issues of our time and do so in our common confessions, then our church wonāt deserve to survive. The Lord of the Church bless you all as you convene on our behalfāand his!
About the Author
Bob De Moor is a retired Christian Reformed pastor living in Edmonton, Alta.